Negative influence is the king when it comes to killing one’s
dream. One of the main reasons is
because it is not easily detected because it comes through the back door of
your subconscious mind and it’s mostly done by family and relatives. Stay away
from people who discouraged and depress you, yes included family and relative!
I am not saying you should abandon them, just limit the time spend around them
because you NEED to protect yourself. The wealthy in society ALWAYS protect them
self from negative influences and that why they are wealthy. Henry Ford did not
listen to the people who said his dream of make automobile was non sense,
neither did the Wright’s brother when they set out to make the first aeroplane! “The person who says it cannot be done
should not interrupt the person doing it” this is my all time favourite
quote
( see Rany Gage view on negative people )
( see Rany Gage view on negative people )
It is not because your family, relative or
friends are evil; their advice can even be interpreted as well –meant words. It’s
just that these well-meant words are a result of fear, fear of the unknown, and
the what if's. The expert has told us that we are the end result of our five closet friends.
The five people who you spend the most time will determine who you are and the
major reason is because they are the one who has the most influences you! How
many times have you heard the phrase “We are the product of our environment”? There are
people who discourage you willingly, because misery loves company, these are
the worst of the lot. These people are the one who you should RUN AWAY from,
forget them! These are the people who will discourage you from taking an
opportunity then turn around and “borrow” or beg money every single time. While
you can forgive people who have well meaning intention there is no forgiveness
for this type. Stick to people who think and dream like you, people you can
learn and grow from. THROW OUT THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE!
( if you dont believe me, then hear what Les Brown think)
This is a great post Dennis! So true. This is why I have an ex husband-he wasn't at all obvious about bringing me down tho so it took me quite a while to notice what was happening. All is good now tho, life is great now!
ReplyDeleteWOW! I guess your a supporter of Les Brown one per box theory :-)
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